On the finer aspects of woman-hood.

If you are a woman, have ever been a woman or are about to become a woman, or maybe you're just a man who likes to read things about being a woman and that blog about how horrendous the experience of reading such drivel can be, including the massive run-on sentences - continue reading.

No, today's topic is not about zombies or camping or rescue animals. Or camping with rescued zombies. It's about the menses. We all do it, unless you don't. Some of us start at very young ages (I was 10, aren't you enlightened?) and some of us start quite late. Some of don't start at all. However, the topic is going to be centered around SANITARY NAPKINS (ZOMGZ!) and the marketing.

I'm 32 years old, which means I've been a slave to the feminine hygiene industry for approximately 22 years. My daughter turned 10 years old yesterday. After I scraped myself off the floor and unfolded myself from the fetal position, I told myself "Self. Arm thee with knowledge, for thine clone shall soon be in the throes of puberty! GOOGLE!"

Now, don't get me wrong. I didn't google the phrase "first period" because I forgot what mine was like. Nor did I do it because I have no idea how to shop for things such as pads and tampons. I'm quite loyal to Kotex, and have been for quite sometime. I googled because sometimes, some places have these things called "kits" that you can either get for free because they are full of samples, or for a minimal fee.

I found a kit before I stopped looking. $19.95. Whut?! What in the fresh hell are they packing in these kits that is worth $19.95? Plus shipping and handling? Pain killers? Oh no, nothing that useful. No, it's a few booklets, a "heat pack" that resembles a breast implant, and some cheaply made change purse that they claim can be used to hold a pad INCONSPICUOUSLY. I don't know about you, or even the general male population - but even at age 10 I knew that a lilac colored pouch probably contained something for the bathroom. Save the twenty bucks because it can buy about four full sized packages of tampons. Or a two six packs of beer.

The thing that caused me the most shock, and a bit of indignant sputtering - was this marketing tagline: "Who says tampons can't be stylish?" found within this website: http://www.ubykotex.com/

Really, Kotex? Really?! U by Kotex is a line of feminine hygiene products that are marketed toward...I don't know, fashion forward women? Apparently the theory is that women who are conscious about their appearance will be delighted by products encased in neon wrappings? I'm only speaking for myself here, but the only time the wrapping of menstrual pad made my day was when they stopped with that loud cellophane plastic-y shit and replaced it with something that resembled fabric and made no noise at all when you shoved it in your pocket and raced off to the bathroom. THAT was genius. Why neon? Am I supposed to show this to my friends, hoping to make them jealous?

The important question is this: Will I now have to buy new shoes? And how come I can't buy a box solely in one color? Why not all hot pink? Or better yet - let's market to the goths. Let me buy tampons wrapped in black, the color of my soul.

Upon further investigation (you know, since I was searching for "first period" kits for my daughter) I found a section of the website under Products entitled "Tween". That's what I'm looking for! Since my angel baby is now a tween (picturing me falling out of my chair to a sobbing heap on the floor). So many products! So many options! Oh...wait...nope. There's regular and heavy. That's it. That's okay, BECAUSE THERE ARE PICTURES OF STARS AND HEARTS ON THEM!

Seriously! http://www.ubykotex.com/products/tween

I know there are other brands out there, but I've stated before - I've been loyal for almost 22 years. I could never find a product from another manufacturer that I preferred. But they kill me with the PICTURES on the MENSTRUAL PADS!

Newsflash: We bleed on those. Now, I can't speak for anyone else, but when you're on your period - do you really give a fuck what your pad LOOKS like? Particularly if you are within the ages of 10-12. Your world has been turned upside down. You've got boobs, your back and your stomach hurt so bad you just want to go to bed and die - but you should feel better because you have hearts and stars on the pads your asshole mother threw at you in the midst of your first PMS rage! Aw! Bonding!

Really? I mean, I could go buy those for my daughter. I could give them to her now and let her know where they need to be for when The Event occurs. Knowing her, she'd probably look at them and then look at me and say "Really, Mom? Really?". She is my daughter, after all. I suppose it could be worse. There could be a market for Justin Bieber Menstruation Blankets.

And don't even get me started on this: http://www.divacup.com/

"DivaCup is comfortable, Reusable." <---WHAT?!